If you ever have been led by a girl before, you should know by now that it was never a fun experience. The feeling of being led on can make you heartbroken and rejected. But it is very important to identify the signs that you are being led on so that you can save yourself for further embarrassment and humiliation. But before you start generalizing it is important to know that only a fraction of the girls lead the guys on intentionally. There are many good girls out there who would not even dream of leading a guy on.
How to tell if a girl is leading you on?
1) Delayed text response
In the 21st century texting is like an everyday ritual. It is understandable that there are certain situations and circumstances in life which does not allow for timely response to text messages. However, if she’s really into you then an honest effort will be made to respond to texts. You should expect at least a ‘Hi’ or ‘will call soon’ when she is unable to send messages to you. But repetitive instances of delayed text response may indicate that it is probably becoming difficult for her to reply to your messages while having lunch with a male friend.
Sometimes the best way to find out whether you are being led on is to ask your friends. If your friends tell you that you are being led on then it’s probably an indication to move on and pursue another girl. It can be really difficult to accept this fact sometimes if you are really into this girl.
3) You are not allowed on her Facebook page
Facebook is universally regarded as the ultimate social networking place for friends. If your sweetheart welcomes you in her tiny little world then it only natural that you are friends on her Facebook page also. But if she unfriends you on Facebook then it is a clear sign that you are being led on and you must be a blind not to understand that.
If the girl whom you like is universally accepted as a natural flirt then chances are that she is leading you a bit unintentionally. There are many girls who possess an outgoing personality that can give the guys a very wrong impression. If the girl is really flirtatious in nature then you need to work really hard to get the girl interested in you.
5) Living too far apart
Real love does not the follow the rules of distance and this can make a relationship very difficult. If she is really interested in you then the distance will not a matter of concern at all. She will work hard with you and consider different options so that you can two can be together. There are many couples who successfully lead a long distance relationship. But, on the other hand, if she complains that distance is a crucial factor and if this appears to resonate in every conversation then chances are that you are being led on.